The boat trailer sold to us with our new 21 SFI has been a problem since day one on getting the trailer to go down on the hitch ball. My dealer said to "put a bunch of thick grease on the ball and then it will slide on like butter"...My question is if it "SLIDES ON LIKE BUTTER' isn't there a VERY GOOD CHANCE it can SLIDE OFF the same way at an UNWANTED TIME....????